February Authentic Relating Games
Winter! >yay< or is it Winter >ugh<? Does it change by the day? I am reminded of what turned out to be one of the most read articles published by the New York Times last year: There’s a Name for the Blah You’re Feeling: It’s Called Languishing. I certainly feel that right now. I’m tired y’all. Tired of short days. Tired of continued limited contact with friends. Tired of limited social events now combined with questioning whether or not it’s a good idea to attend what events are happening. >ugh<
That’s what’s real for me right now, and what’s real right now is what Authentic Relating is all about. The magic, if we can allow such a thing, is that honest, open sharing of present moment experience in the presence of others feels… well… really dang good and is very, very different than wallowing and complaining, which is what the above could easily become.
It is my sincere hope that you are not languishing, that you have found healthy, effective ways to cope and balance risks to get the human connection you need to thrive. And next week or next month, we may switch places as our lives twisty-turny, upsie-downsie. No matter where you are, you are wanted and welcome at our gatherings (still via Zoom) where I can promise you’ll feel different afterward - very likely different in a better sort of way.
Authentic Relating helps me practice ways of relating I was never taught and that are not often modeled in typical exchanges with others - even in close relationships. The practices, games, we call them, are amazingly good at satisfying core needs to be seen, heard, connect with others, and experience the deeply shared aspects of our existence.
Please join us Tuesday, February 15th, 2022 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm PST via Zoom. Ahran and I will be facilitating. This event is limited to 16 people, so you’re encouraged to sign up early.
What are Authentic Relating Games? Authentic Relating Games are a place to practice different ways of being human with others. AR Games interrupt our habitual ways of being and offer opportunities to stretch ourselves emotionally, mentally, and relationally. At the end of the games, participants often feel connected with one another, sometimes in surprising and profound ways.
What are the games like? Some are played one-on-one, some in small groups, and some with the whole group. Some last just a few minutes, some as long as 30 minutes. They range from fun and playful to serious and edgy, all within a safe container.
Curious, but not sure if this is for you? We understand. Feel free to reply to this message with your questions.
We hope to see you at our next event.
Warmly,
Ryan